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Since childhood, I’ve been told that:

  • God keeps tabs on you
  • God punishes you if you’ve been bad
  • You are answerable to God for all you do
  • God dictates the course of your life

It has finally dawned upon me.

God is – the Missus!

Off-topic: An interesting conversation about “my wife” vs. “the wife” can be found here.

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2014 – A New Beginning

Over the past couple of years, I realize I have completely ignored this blog. And, it’s not because my life has ceased to be exciting or because Stwabbit is now a big girl – I guess I should just put it down to sheer laziness!

In a retrospective moment, I woke up to the fact that this blog is an integral part of me, and killing it would be akin to killing a part of me. Now, that’s not something I’d be looking forward to.

So, here’s my New Year Resolution:

Shall post here, at least once a week.ย 

Since age is catching up on me, I need to have enough memories stored away for my fast-approaching fading years ๐Ÿ™‚

Here’s wishing everybody a very happy year ahead, and to new beginnings!

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Back online


It’s been a while since I posted… a lot has been happening in my life.
To start with, I’ve switched jobs… after almost 6 years in the previous organization, I felt it was time to move on. So, I did ๐Ÿ™‚

Apart from a new job, I also have a new member in my family – pictured above. She’s adorable…

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An (Corporate) Ocean Tale

Once upon a time, deep in the ocean, there flourished a civilization. There was business, there was trade… in short, there was everything that can be expected of a civilization.

There existed a big corporation, run by sharks. And, there was a small organization, run by octopusses. The sharks employed lots of sharks to do their work. The octopusses had squids to do their bidding.

The Octopus organization had a few pet fish. One day, they entered into a contract with the Shark organization to hire the fish out – now, the fish were expected to entertain the sharks. The sharks had a lot of fun chasing the fish around and troubling them; the poor fish ran around in circles and cribbed to the ocotopuses and squids, to no avail.

One day, the sharks gobbled up the fish.

The octopusses and the squids couldn’t care less.

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NTK = Need To Know
WTK = Want To Know
WTF – Needs no explanation ๐Ÿ™‚

Of late, I’ve had the opportunity to observe a strange phenomenon concerning human nature – people tend to want to know about things which are not directly affecting what they are supposed to do, but would rather just have information that they absolutely need to know about the task they are assigned to.

I strongly believe that need to know should be coupled with a desire to know, for effective information dissipation to occur. Separating need from want is fine while budgeting your personal finance, but not when knowledge is involved.
People tend to ask a zillion questions about unrelated topics, but fail to come up with relevant questions when the time comes for them to really understand things. One excuse I recently heard was, “I can’t think of what questions to ask!”

The same person was asking a barrage of questions when sitting through a knowledge transfer session for someone else’s topic!

This kind of attitude is, in my opinion, living in denial. Topics one is not concerned with are like gossip – nice to hear and discuss. Topics that need attention and effort are incomprehensible – it’s easy to say “I’m dumb – I can’t understand anything – so don’t tell me more than I need to know!”

It’s a kind of disclaimer – I tried to do something with the knowledge I was imparted (not that I bothered to ask for clarifications!), and I have no idea how to add value or go that extra mile! Hence, you have a job done; no pride taken, done with the least bit of interest and no application of thought. It’s great to be able to hide behind a curtain of stupidity! A job done, but not a job well done…

It’s a sad state of affairs – such people exist, and such people procreate to raise another generation of fools. Where exactly is the human race headed? Or, are such people the missing link in Darwin’s theory of evolution?

My Disclaimer: This post is about some people, not all people!

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My Condolences…

Tejaswee is no more.

A mosquito bite snuffed out her life. She succumbed to the deadly dengue virus, last week.

I didn’t know Tejaswee – didn’t even know she existed, till I got to know of her sudden demise. It shouldn’t affect me. Yet, I grieve.

So, who was Tejaswee? She was the nineteen-and-a-half year old daughter of IHM, a blogger of repute. Tejaswee had her own blog, too, which I discovered today. Too late.

Life, for her, was just beginning. She had dreams of a great career and a lovely family. She had written a lovely letter to the future – a future which will, sadly, no longer arrive.

Being a parent, I can imagine what IHM and her family must be going through. I hope they have the strength to cope with it.

May Tejaswee’s soul rest in peace.

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Kasab’s guilt has been established, and he has been convicted by the court of law. What do you feel his punishment should be?

Added May 6, 2:20 pm

Kasab’s been awarded the death sentence.ย  Once confirmed by the High Court, he’ll die the easy way – he really ought to be stoned to death…

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